When God throws life at me, I take it as an opportunity for me to grow as individual. The older I get, the bigger the opportunities get.
If there's a piece of advice I could give any of you at this very moment is to take a chance. Take a chance at whatever life throws at you. Whether it be a career change, a perspective suitor, or a lifestyle change. Whatever life throws at you, take the opportunity. Life is too short, to miss out on great opportunities that come your way.
For me, life has a way of throwing opportunities left and right. I find myself thinking so much about the outcomes of taking chances. The first question that pops in my head is: Will I be happy? If the answer turns out to be yes, then I will accept it. I know that opportunities will come my way, and I have to chose what's best for me. It's important to take the time to think what's truly best for yourself. Will it make you happy?
I have come to the realization that if there's something or someone that is meant to be in my life, it will happen. Not in my own time, but in God's time. I know that what's meant for me will come at the right time in my life. I should just keep doing me, and allowing myself to grow into the individual I need to be, not only for myself but for the ones around me.
Taking a chance is allowing ourselves to either rise or fall. But, even if we fall into disappoint it is only temporary. We grow as individuals whenever disappointments come into our life because we take it as a lesson that we need to go through. We all have our highs and lows, but regardless we have to keep on going. There will be more chances that will be given to you, you will find that happiness that you are searching for. Keep on going with life, because the opportunities that will come your way will work out to your favor.
All my life, I've found myself taking chances at whatever God throws at me. Most especially when it came to love and career. Every relationship whether the past or even present I took the chance. Not knowing what to expect, but taking a chance and hoping for the best. Throughout those relationships, I learned what true love really is and qualities that were important to me in a significant other. If you know me, my qualities in men have truly changed and that's okay. Things change, and we tend to meet the love of our lives unexpectedly. Career wise, it took me awhile to get to where I needed to be, but I pushed myself to the best of my ability. But, most especially I've prayed about this for so long, and God answered my prayer. He's the reason why I was able to do it all.
I know that a lot of us may let fear get in the way. There are so much chances that we are given in this life, we miss out on great opportunities that allow us to grow. Don't be afraid to take those chances that you've been putting off. Life will always be a challenge, and we have the choice to accept what is or what was.
Take that chance. Make it happen. Give yourself a chance at happiness.