We all find ourselves dreaming and seeking "the one." The special person who makes us realize why it never worked out with anyone else.
Growing up, I found myself watching filipino soap operas which encouraged me to fall in love with love. These shows are also a reason why I became a hopeless romantic. I found myself wishing and dreaming of meeting "the one" at the right moment in my life.
We all dream of finding "the one" for us. The "one" who shows us why it never worked out with anyone else. The person who makes us heal from all the heartbreak from the past. We find them to be unlike no other, too good to be true. But, of course that person does not come right away. In order for us to find that person, we must be patient.
A love worth having, is a love worth waiting for. I believe whomever that someone is will come to you at the right time in your life when you least expect it. It could be tomorrow, a week, a month, or years. But, when we truly find "the one" it makes you feel whole and the happiest person on earth. You will find yourself appreciating the love you have and realizing that he or she was worth the wait. The struggles and pains you went through, cannot compare to the happiness and love you will receive in the long run.
While that time has not come, it is important to focus on yourself. I know I have said this majority of the time but its true. It is important to focus on yourself and what you want to make out of your life. Choose to become the best version of yourself. Keep a positive mindset and stay hopeful of finding "the one." The best things come into our life unexpectedly. When that time comes, we appreciate the person in our life so much more.
When I had my first heartbreak, I found myself focusing on God's love. To create a better relationship with him, and to fulfill my purpose in life. To be a voice for someone in need and inspire the ones around me. I realized God was molding me into the individual I needed to be. He taught me how to be strong, courageous, independent, and no words could express my gratitude for all these blessings. He made me realize the kind of man I need to be with, "the one" who will choose to love me despite all my flaws and imperfections. "The one" who will bring me even closer to you.
I have had my share of love and heart break but I still find myself wanting to love again. Love is not only a feeling but a choice. A choice that we make when we feel that the person we set our eyes for is someone special, someone out of the ordinary. It could be someone you could have never imagined of dating, but look at the irony. You choose to love that person because you see such potential in them.
"If it's meant to be, love will find its way back." This quote really brings me home because I have always believed in fate and the right time. I feel that if two people are truly meant to be together, fate will bring them together. Although it could take months, years, who knows? All I know is that it will be worth the wait.
So whether you are facing heartbreak or just have given up on love my advice is: Don't. Love is not something to be rushed into, it is something that you should take your time with. At the right time, you will be with someone who will make you realize that is was worth being patient. While your love has not come, focus on becoming the best version of yourself and enjoy what life throws at you. Love will come just you wait and see.